Humans are the strangest species ever, especially when it involves relationship. When we want to confess about something, we tend to over cautious about our choice of words but ultimately fail to convey our feelings precisely. However, when we need to make a concession, we tend to place a stronger emphasis on our dignity to prevent us from being the "loser" in the relationship, but ridiculously things would not end up the way we wish to see.
If we are alone, we could be just ourselves without caring much about other's feelings. On the other hand, if we are in a relationship with someone that we might care more than ourselves, we need to listen completely, communicate softly and understand and respect his/her feelings to maintain a long-term healthy and meaningful relationship. This is absolutely not easy and not everyone is aware of this. Unfortunately, we only know it after getting hurt or hurting someone we care.
Love is about finding someone who worth your time and energy and appreciate the real "you". The imperfect but trying to be better "you". Even you might think you look fat, in his eyes, you look perfect, probably just happen to be surrounded by fats. The fats are the thick wrappers of his/her precious present.
You are the present.
I wonder how lucky must someone be to meet the "one" in their life and grow old together. There might be people who are more brilliant, wealthier, better looking and more talented than him/her. But the one is irreplaceable. The one that you could laugh crazily at stupid things, complain badly about your boss or cry without feeling embarrassed.
And most importantly, you could love unconditionally.
Do you?
Yeah.
I do.
If we are alone, we could be just ourselves without caring much about other's feelings. On the other hand, if we are in a relationship with someone that we might care more than ourselves, we need to listen completely, communicate softly and understand and respect his/her feelings to maintain a long-term healthy and meaningful relationship. This is absolutely not easy and not everyone is aware of this. Unfortunately, we only know it after getting hurt or hurting someone we care.
Love is about finding someone who worth your time and energy and appreciate the real "you". The imperfect but trying to be better "you". Even you might think you look fat, in his eyes, you look perfect, probably just happen to be surrounded by fats. The fats are the thick wrappers of his/her precious present.
You are the present.
I wonder how lucky must someone be to meet the "one" in their life and grow old together. There might be people who are more brilliant, wealthier, better looking and more talented than him/her. But the one is irreplaceable. The one that you could laugh crazily at stupid things, complain badly about your boss or cry without feeling embarrassed.
And most importantly, you could love unconditionally.
Do you?
Yeah.
I do.
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