Started my first day of final semester today. Was definitely a day well spent with my classmates. Would be better if Mun Sin can join us sing k, but at least she came and joined us for buffet dinner for the very first time! Teehee.
First class was Advanced Audit and Assurance. Was questioning myself why I choose this elective paper as I can foresee it'll be a very difficult one, maybe will lower my CGPA cries. My lecturer talked about the expectation gap between the real work of auditor and the public's expectation towards auditor, which is one of the challenges faced by auditors nowadays.
Expectation gap. This term reminds me of my conversation with Ivy last night. This girl is leaving to Singapore to start her new chapter very soon. We met up and talked about random things, including our relationship with others.
Our conclusion is, once one party has expectation towards another party in a relationship, one will get disappointed easily when the other party do or doesn't do anything. Question is, does the other party has an obligation to do that? Are we setting our expectation too high and being unfair to another party who doesn't think the same but also care about the relationship as much as you?
How do we judge whether someone cares or not?
They always say, you'll know it because you'll feel it. It's not about their words or action, but deep inside our heart we will feel it.
Can I? Do I?
Been so uncertain about this. About my feelings. About my relationship with everyone around me. Even if I know people will lie, I still feel more assured if other says or promised something, but I'll be judgmental immediately.
Guess I'm just over thinking again.
It'll be much better if we don't set any expectation at all. I always find my internship experience quite ok because I'm prepared for shit and ended up the shit wasn't that much? I tried to have zero expectation when I entered into relationship with my bf, even deep inside I sincerely hope our relationship will last until we died.
We always hope to get good things and people, but yet we are so afraid to lose it. So, we lower our expectation to protect ourselves and to close the expectation gap. This would also prevent us from exerting too much pressure to another party who is not ready to give that much into a relationship or have a different personality from us.
In the end, we just hope to be loved and recognized. Easy to say but I really doubt will I be this lucky.
First class was Advanced Audit and Assurance. Was questioning myself why I choose this elective paper as I can foresee it'll be a very difficult one, maybe will lower my CGPA cries. My lecturer talked about the expectation gap between the real work of auditor and the public's expectation towards auditor, which is one of the challenges faced by auditors nowadays.
Expectation gap. This term reminds me of my conversation with Ivy last night. This girl is leaving to Singapore to start her new chapter very soon. We met up and talked about random things, including our relationship with others.
Our conclusion is, once one party has expectation towards another party in a relationship, one will get disappointed easily when the other party do or doesn't do anything. Question is, does the other party has an obligation to do that? Are we setting our expectation too high and being unfair to another party who doesn't think the same but also care about the relationship as much as you?
How do we judge whether someone cares or not?
They always say, you'll know it because you'll feel it. It's not about their words or action, but deep inside our heart we will feel it.
Can I? Do I?
Been so uncertain about this. About my feelings. About my relationship with everyone around me. Even if I know people will lie, I still feel more assured if other says or promised something, but I'll be judgmental immediately.
Guess I'm just over thinking again.
It'll be much better if we don't set any expectation at all. I always find my internship experience quite ok because I'm prepared for shit and ended up the shit wasn't that much? I tried to have zero expectation when I entered into relationship with my bf, even deep inside I sincerely hope our relationship will last until we died.
We always hope to get good things and people, but yet we are so afraid to lose it. So, we lower our expectation to protect ourselves and to close the expectation gap. This would also prevent us from exerting too much pressure to another party who is not ready to give that much into a relationship or have a different personality from us.
In the end, we just hope to be loved and recognized. Easy to say but I really doubt will I be this lucky.
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