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Saturday, 30 November 2019

Social Media Influence

Ok I find myself like to update blog when finals or important exam is around the corner.

Was scrolling my Facebook profile and looking at all the photos which I was tagged by others. Have removed many photos that I posted myself HAHA. Just feel like wan to have some privacy.

Internet has changed our life, and also our relationship. We start to magnify many trivial issues at internet, post our opinions or feeling, trying to seek attention from a wide range of people because sometimes we don't know how to initiate or engage in a conversation. Many of my friends prefer to reply via insta story rather than just talk at whatsapp. Probably we just hope to not disturb other's life which we have no longer involved in but we still wish to know what's happening to others? (Geh po)

I was very reluctant to update my personal feelings or life at social media, and insist that only people who I'm really close with will know what's happening in my life. Until I became the president of Accounting Society, I noticed social media could be used as a platform for marketing, kept myself updated of some important info, networking with people whom I barely remember their names, gaining fame (?) and most importantly, to prove that you're really doing your job and having a good relationship with your team.

I find this extremely ridiculous tbh as I still think what is shown at social media could be entirely different from the real life! I witness too many friends who posted how fun their moment spent with their friends, but in real life complaining... also couple who posted their sweet moments and just broke up few days after! Even some who barely talk or spend time with their family, posting how lovely they're with their family! I still find this confusing sometimes. Is it me who too obsessed with being genuine and the truth?

I guess I just don't belong to the virtual social media world. I become more active at social media at the beginning of this year because I was very curious with the human behaviour that is reflected through social media. I was influenced by some of my friends who are social media influencers.

And I find social media very addictive. I began to lose myself, very worried on other's reaction when they saw my insta story, and concerned on how many people viewed my insta story. And I think I am really lazy at taking good photos from nice angle, using the correct filter, coming out with nice caption. Ok I'm really lazy.

I have spoken to Michael who always update his insta story, and he told me to stop over think and be myself at social media. He isn't wrong, but probably is me who worries too much.

But of course there's good side of social media! I get to talk to some of my friends without awkwardness, keep in touch with some friends who I really care. And sharing some stupid moments in my life! There are really some people who find it easier to get closer with me through insta story LOL. They just find interaction through insta story or message is fun. I also love looking at pretty photos or mouth watering food!

Besides, insta story is a good source of information hahaha! There are many interesting features or stuffs that one could find from social media too. Shouldn't neglect the usefulness of social media. Hardly find someone like Soon Weng who stay far away from social media.

Glad that I have get rid of addiction to social media and putting more emphasis and care in my real life. Feeling and appreciating every moment makes me feel alive and cherished.

I suddenly recall when Snapchat and Twitter were introduced, I was very reluctant to embrace these new platforms (like Soon Weng). Seems like I didn't change much.

Every coin has two sides. Probably it depends on how we use social media. I think I prefer to post funny moments to make others happier (life is hard) and post moments with some of my friends who really care about social media presence? Oh ya it's a good marketing platform for my events too! 

Tuesday, 26 November 2019

Feeling blessed

I don't know what should I ask for more sometimes. Appreciate all the people that I've met who treated me well and being kind to me. Especially those who trust me more than I trust myself.

P.S.
当然要谢谢最肥的那个 UWU

Monday, 18 November 2019

For real?

If sharing this can solve the problems in Hong Kong, how I wish it could this easy.



Pray for Hong Kong

So disheartening after reading all the comments under the Facebook post.

I didn't research much on how is happening recently nor spent time verifying the truthiness of each news I have read, hence I chose to not support either party.

I just hope that nobody dies. Nobody gets hurt anymore.

Please people, stop cyber bullying. Why can't you see how harsh and bad the words that you typed? If today your children are the students who are stuck in the campus, will you say the same shit anymore?

These people only know to hide behind the keyboard and pretend to be a hero.

My friend once asked me, what is my expectation towards tertiary education.

Yeah, I guess I hope all university graduates could be a responsible citizen. Someone responsible for all the words written in their social media. Someone who will think before they speak.

We don't need everyone to be an activist or someone who advocate for something big. I believe if everyone can play their own role responsibly, maybe just start from drive properly and obey the rules, the world will be better.

But yeah I know. I'm always naive.

Always.

Probably that's why I feel very easily recently. Reading all the news, looking at all the photos.

No matter the source of news I read is legit or not, I know there are people who are suffering.

If there's God, please protect them. Please do. 

Wednesday, 13 November 2019

11.11 & 12.11

Both days were great days for me.

11.11
Last min joining the crazy 11.11 shopping hype. Was sad as I failed to buy the Innisfree masks urgh! So many to buy but yet so less to spend.

It was Mun Sin's birthday! Too bad didn't manage to meet up with Qiao Xuan and Jia Xin, and our sing k plan has been postponed indefinitely (it's been a year walau!) But the birthday lunch with our uni mates was a memorable one! We planned to have Korean food but it was unfortunately closed (maybe the shop owner is busy online shopping). Hence we decided to walk from LRT Wangsa Maju to AEON Wangsa Maju to grab KFC, which was my very first suggestion for lunch haha.

There was an impromptu birthday surprise as I noticed there is a Secret Recipe in the mall. I swear it's the most awkward moment when we sang the birthday song, thanks to all my classmates (let's not talk about this). I don't know how a casual chatting session turned out to be a typical CNY aunt throwing difficult questions to the younger generation - "Why you don't have girlfriend?" "When want to find a girlfriend?"

LOL. Pity the guys. Their facial expressions were the best HAHA.

Finally we took many pictures! Couldn't recall when was the last time our gang went out together. Probably our last meal with Kah Khei as she is planning to defer her final sem. Putting aside all the drama with her, she will definitely be missed. All the best to another "Jia Qi" in my life, who taught me to be more considerate and careful of my words and actions.

My badminton plan with boyfriend failed as someone was lazy! Another impromptu outing with him, and we managed to grab Llao Llao with only RM11! But the fruit toppings were out of stock by that time. We finally tried out a Chinese steamboat shop that we passed by many times, and had a good quality conversation (despite the fact that our conversations are always high quality hehe).

12.11
The original plan was to stick closely to my study plan as I have been falling behind! Three weeks to ACCA but I feel so unprepared (and now I decide to update blog over study rip). Again, I use my period fatigue as excuse to have an impromptu dinner with my boyfriend and ACS gang. Another good quality yet entertaining
conversation with them. I even helped Ernest to win an argument. Mixed feeling over this as I feel proud of myself, but sad at the quality of the committee nowadays.


Feels good to always feel cherished and fulfilled in my life.

But. What happen to my study plan? Oops.